With our economy in the gutter, I’m looking for ways to have fun on a budget. Spring break is coming up and we have no plans to go anywhere, so we’ll be riding bikes, having picnics, going to the library, using coupons for free games of bowling, going to the beach (free for us) and anything else that doesn’t cost a lot of money. I’m constantly dreaming up bargain ways we can enjoy ourselves. Cheap is good, free is better.
And so it is with the book club. For the price of a bottle of wine or, in the case of last week, a pan of chicken enchiladas, I get two to three hours of lively, inspiring conversation in a room full of adults. We laugh, catch up with each other, eat, and talk- a lot- about that month’s book, but also about whatever else is going on, all in a relaxed, cozy, kid-free atmosphere. Friendships with these other women have a chance to grow over time into something unlike other relationships in our lives, because we have this common bond. The food is always delicious, and sometimes, there are margaritas. That’s a lot of bang for my buck.
Last Sunday my book club descended on my house, a dozen women coming up my driveway in a wave of laughter, bearing food and drink and books. Reading is solitary but book clubs are social, and I look forward to seeing these people all month. We sat around my very long dining table enjoying our dinner and each other. Sheri mixed up the margs and they were unbelievable (the key is fresh everything- including limes from her backyard). We welcomed a new member (she was the only one who didn’t partake in the margaritas, so I hope we didn’t scare her off!), finished dinner, then moved into the living room to discuss Sara’s Key by Tatiana de Rosnay. The book was universally enjoyed but, surprisingly, didn’t give us that much to chew on, which worked out well because this was a ‘voting’ meeting. We needed to decide what to read this summer. And that takes a while.
We voted on 2 new book selections from a list of 9 nominees. Here’s the list:
The Art of Racing in the Rain
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society
Out Stealing Horses
South Sea Tales
Beneath the Marble Sky
The Book of Bright Ideas
The Book Thief
Life of Pi
After much discussion, we voted in Still Alice by Lisa Genova for July, a novel about a woman struck by early-onset Alzheimer’s Disease, and Life of Pi by Yann Martel for August, a fable about the son of a zookeeper who finds himself in a lifeboat with several wild animals.
Then some people had to leave, but others stayed for the ‘book club after the book club’ which was more informal (no discussion questions here!). We had another drink and compared this months selection to last months, and found out which one people liked better, and why, and talked about what makes a book discussable, etc. But then it was time to retrieve the kids from the neighbor’s house. Sadly, our book club bubble was about to burst.
My neighbor later said she enjoyed hearing our laughter (I guess we were a little loud!) and was surprised when she found out it was “just a book club meeting” (as opposed to some other kind of party) which proves my point.. book clubs are a great form of cheap entertainment!
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