Guest Post: A Room of My Own by Meg Waite Clayton


Please welcome Meg Waite Clayton, author of the national bestseller The Wednesday Sisters,  to Books on the Brain!  In this essay she writes about her workspace and the special things she keeps there to inspire her.  

Virginia Woolf famously said in “A Room of One’s Own” that “a woman must have money and a room of her own if she is to write fiction.” My room is a bedroom which has in place of the requisite bed and dresser: a desk, a couch, two small round tables suitable for setting manuscripts on, and lots of books.

imageDBI occasionally think I should replace my bookshelves—a walnut bookcase and a china cabinet, both originally my mother-in-law’s—with more practical floor-to-ceiling built-ins that would hold the books now overflowing my shelves. But it’s hard to imagine parting with the history and beauty they bring to my space, so my books spill over to my closet and, I admit it, my floor, my desk, even my couch. I turn to them sometimes when I’m writing. (Whenever I write a party scene, I pull out The Great Gatsby to remind me how it’s done.) But for the most part, I keep books near to inspire me. One glance at the Austens and Eliots, McDermotts and McEwans, among others—many signed by the author—reminds me what I’m shooting for.

The center of my room of my own is my desk. It’s a holdover from my days as a lawyer, when I could afford to buy swanky hand-crafted reproduction Queen Anne. I fell in love with it at first sight, and even when I was still marking up corporate contracts in my lawyering days, I imagined I might someday work up the courage to pursue my childhood dream of writing a novel here on its lovely cherry-wood surface.

webarmadillo-150x98I’m a superstitious old soul, and so I keep on my desktop a number of talismans to bring good juju to my writing: a psychedelic armadillo my sons gave me in celebration of my first publication credit (an essay in Runner’s World, and your guess is as good as mine what a psychedelic armadillo has to do with that!); a Japanese doll my Uncle brought me from one of his many adventures, which wears a string of pearls given me by the Vice-Mayor of Wuxi, China during one of mine; a card, the cover of which is a lovely photo by my friend Adreinne Defendi; a “Follow Your Dream” candle made for me by my friend Mark Holmes; a cheesy “You will always be my Best Friend. You know too much” plaque my best friend, Jennifer DuChene, sent me; a pen holder given to me many, many years ago by the best storyteller in my family, my Uncle Jim—which now holds a pencil (for practical and symbolic reasons) and has taped to it a fortune cookie message: “The great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do”; my favorite honeymoon photo of Mac and me, now 21 years old; one of my children at 5 and 3, taken 14 years ago; and a digital frame that rotates a myriad of family and friends; and the medal from the one marathon I’ve run (also years old).

webbrendaangel-107x150Like my books, my talismans spill over. Elsewhere in my office are the dried rose petals from the bouquet my parents sent me when I sold my first novel; a collection of champagne corks each marked with a date and event that was cause for celebration; a bullet shell from my turn at a machine gun near some war tunnels in Vietnam, where I was traveling when The Wednesday Sisters sold to Ballantine Books; a writing angel send by my dear friend and fellow novelist, Brenda Rickman Vantrease, to watch over me. Why these particular things? The marathon medal reminds me that if I can run 26.2miles, I can do anything. But I think the other talismans simply make me feel loved, and that love frees me to be myself, to trust myself as I write.

marathonmedalforweb-150x145The desktop photo above is repeated on my website, on my Writers’ page. There, you can scroll over my talismans—as well as marked up manuscript pages, outlines, my journal and the “research bible” I put together for The Wednesday Sisters—for a glimpse at how I write. Some of the items listed above are pictured, but others have been added since I took the photo: my talismans multiply almost as fast as my books do. The roses? I have a wonderful husband, who gently nudged me toward my dream years ago by telling me he believed I could do what I feared I could not.

To be honest, my desktop rarely looks as neat as it does in this photo. It’s usually covered with post-it notes to remind me of things I want to do or revisions I mean to make. Dirty coffee cups, yes, and chocolate wrappers, newspaper clippings, and books. But that’s one of the nicest things about having a room of my own: I can close my door. It allows me what Woolf writes so eloquently of in her essay: room—psychological room—to live in whatever place I choose, free to imagine my own, unlimited world.

megMeg Waite Clayton’s bestselling novel, The Wednesday Sisters, has been selected by major book club programs including the Target Stores Bookmarked program, and the Borders Book Club program. Her first novel, The Language of Light, was a Bellwether Prize finalist, and her third, The Ms Bradwells, is forthcoming from Ballantine Books. Her short stories and essays have been read on public radio and have appeared in commercial and literary magazines including Runner’s World, Writer’s Digest, The Virginia Quarterly Review, and theLiterary Review. She is a graduate of the University of Michigan and Michigan Law School, and lives with her family in Palo Alto, California.


19 Responses

  1. I ***love*** the armadillo!!!

  2. Love this book and author! Our book club is currently reading this and in October we are having a Fiction Character Party which stems from this book.

    • My book club will read it in November and Meg has agreed to chat with us by speaker phone. Excited!!! I don’t know what you’re talking about with the Fiction Character Party but I guess I’ll find out when I read it.. sounds like a fun time!

  3. Just read the book this weekend, and really enjoyed it.

    • Oh, good! I’ve heard such great things. Trish/Hey Lady! just loves this book and sent me her copy a loooong time ago. I’m so happy my book club finally picked it and that we will read it together.

  4. Great guest post. I love how all of her talismans represent great memories.

  5. This is a great guest post…what a great rendition of what talismans she has, and that armadillo is gorgeous.

    • I thought I knew what the word talisman meant before this post, but I was wrong! I have to stop assuming things like that and take the time to look them up!

  6. What a fabulous post. I love the talismans and all the good juju they provide.

    There is something about being able to close one’s door too. I don’t know what I’d do without an office.

  7. What a fun post. I too like the mementos.

  8. Gosh, this was a fun post to read. I liked the talk of talismans. That’s what I’m going to call my special things from now on. So much better than nick-knacks because they are symbols of happy remembrances.

    Also, I can see that I need to get my hands on a copy of The Wednesday Sisters.

  9. What a fun visit into her writing world. Thanks so much!

  10. What an enjoyable essay about her writing space and the things which inhabit this scared space! I think many of us feel the same way, and keep reminders of our powers and abilities near our writing desks.

  11. Great post! I am looking to try and get my book club to choose this as our next selection because I have heard great things about it. Here’s hoping that it works out!

  12. Terrific post! I love how sentimental Clayton is. I love all those talismans. I so need a writing room. That would be helpful. Never had a place big enough for that. I have this book on my TBR list and look forward to reading it one day soon!

  13. Lisa, Love this post! The MM’s are meeting the Meg in Novemeber (so excited).

    I am passing along accolades today and have mentioned your site – you have been so helpful to me. Helping me define my blog and make it meaningful for me.

    Thanks for hosting the SRS with me too!

  14. What a fun guest post! I love all the talismans, especially the psychedelic armadillo and the marathon medal.

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